Can One Prepare Enough for Marriage?
Marriage is said to be the coming together of two individuals of opposite sex, from totally different background, with the intention of sharing each other's company for the rest of their lives. The challenges that comes with this journey is sometimes not so clear from the onset and it is for this reason you find two persons who were virtually inseparably in love but within some months as married couples, they divorce and the love vanishes. The level of uncertainties that comes with married life is enormous. So this question was raised in a group I belong to on FB ( The Marital Bliss community ) which explores the possibilities of intentional happy marriage. The responses to this question left me with more questions and opened my eyes how diverse our human understanding is, in the issues of marriage. In contributing to the discussions, i posited that yes one can prepare enough for marriage but several others disagreed. Here is my position; On this question, bearing in mi